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Two people who really helped me get a handle on my confidence are Carlos Xuma and. Lance Mason. Both of these guys are really good friends of mine.
Everything You Need To Know About

Meeting, Dating, & Seducing Women By Joseph Matthews

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Everything You Need To Know About Meeting, Dating & Seducing Women

Table Of Contents Introduction .................................................................................................................. 2 How To Instantly Boost Your Confidence......................................................... 4 How To Meet Women ................................................................................................ 6 How To Meet Women On The Internet .............................................................. 8 Know Exactly What To Say To A Woman ........................................................ 10 How To Attract Younger Women ....................................................................... 12 How To Be Funny And Interesting Around Women................................... 13 How To Generate Attraction With Women .................................................... 15 How To Be Persistent With Women.................................................................. 18 How To Make A Woman Your Girlfriend........................................................ 19 How To Seduce A Woman...................................................................................... 22 How To Rock Her World In Bed ......................................................................... 25 How To Have A Threesome................................................................................... 28 How To Pick Up A Stripper ................................................................................... 30 Other Resources ........................................................................................................ 32 Putting It All Together............................................................................................. 36

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Introduction Hi there, and welcome to “Everything You Need To Know About Meeting, Dating, & Seducing Women.” If you’ve ever struggled with women and relationships, this special report is going to really open your eyes. My name is Joseph Matthews, and I used to be a COMPLETE loser with women. To give you an idea of what I look like, I’m overweight, bald, and generally have the appearance of Tony Soprano’s lovechild. Because of this, I was always massively insecure around women. I’d had my heart broken on more than one occasion, and at times felt like I’d never be happy. Then, something happened to me that was so traumatic, I made a conscious decision to make meeting, dating, & seducing women my ultimate goal in life. After all, everyone deserves to be happy, and to me, finding the right girl meant happiness. Over the years, I must have gone out thousands of times, dating literally HUNDREDS of women. Not all were beauty queens, that’s for sure, but 99% of them were amazing girls. Even though my looks didn’t change much, my success with women did. I learned how to improve my confidence, build attraction, and become a skilled lover. The things I learned have allowed me to be with women most men only dream of, including: • • • • • •

Strippers Porn Stars Models Actresses Successful Businesswomen College Co-Eds

Just to name a few. It has been an incredible adventure for me, and the success I’ve achieved with the ladies has been beyond my wildest dreams. In 2004, I even wrote a book teaching guys what it is I do that makes me so successful. It’s called The Art Of Approaching, and it contains everything any man needs to know to get the woman he desires. (Hey, if a fat, bald, ugly guy like me can do it, ANYONE can!) Since I released my book, I have literally helped THOUSANDS of men meet the right woman for them. Some have referred to me as a “real life Hitch,” but I’m just some dude who figured a few things out. Nothing more.

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This report your reading right now is meant to help the average guy get started learning everything he needs to know to have ultimate success and power with women. You’ll even notice that I reference a number of different resources in this book. These are all resources I used in my journey to become more successful with the ladies, and I would encourage you to check out all of them if you can. I would also encourage you to take a serious look at my course The Art Of Approaching. Many people have gotten a lot out of my course, and I am very proud of it. However, it is possible to see immediate results just from the tactics I cover in this report. So I would encourage you to read the whole thing, if you can. Or, if there’s just one specific aspect of dating you’re interested in, skip right to that section! I designed this manual to quickly help any guy with any aspect of his love life. And if you really think that this manual is good, please share it with your friends. We always gotta help our brutha’s out, know what I’m saying? ;-) If you have any questions outside this manual, feel free to email me directly and ask. I can’t promise I’ll respond, but I’ll certainly try! You can reach me at [email protected]. So now all that’s out of the way, enjoy my book! I hope you use it to get real results with women as quickly as possible. Wishing you success,

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How To Instantly Boost Your Confidence The first step in getting good with women is learning how to be more confident in yourself. Let’s face it, if you ask any woman what the most attractive quality is in men, they will almost always say “Confidence.” Nothing is sexier to women than a man who is confident in himself. The problem most guys face, however, is that they’re never really sure what it means to actually “be confident.” If I were to ask you what your definition of confidence is, what would it be? I’m willing to bet that whatever it is, your definition of confidence is different from mine and most other guys out there. To me, confidence is really just “secure self-knowledge.” It’s about knowing who you are, what you like, what you dislike, and how to act in any given situation. Fear, nervousness, and uncertainty all manifest themselves in ways which destroy confidence. So if you are with a girl, and you are unsure what to do, you lose that feeling of confidence that can make you so attractive to the ladies. A lot of so-called “dating coaches” out there will advise you to “fake it until you make it.” In other words - act confident until you ARE confident. Personally, I think this is a horrible idea. You can act as confident as you want, but the minute you get rejected by a girl, you open yourself up to severe depression. Instead, you want to learn to love who you are, and be secure in what you believe. This is a great way to start your journey to becoming more successful with women. One trick I teach in my course is a great way to instantly boost your confidence. I recommend having a “Confidence Song.” (Trust me, it’s not as cheesy as it sounds.) Understand that music has a power to instantly change our emotions. Music can make us feel sad, excited, happy – any number of things. So what I recommend is, before you go out to meet women, or go out on a date, have a song you listen to in order to pump yourself up! It can be any song that makes you feel good and excited. And if you ever feel yourself losing confidence, just listen to that song again in your mind to try and recapture that feeling.

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But if you want to really do well with women, you’ll have to create confidence in yourself that is unshakable, so no matter how many times you might fail or get rejected, it’s not painful to you. Building confidence is a process of learning to love yourself and be comfortable with thinking positively about yourself. Far too many guys get used to thinking about themselves in a negative fashion – so much so that they don’t believe anything good when it comes to themselves! Two people who really helped me get a handle on my confidence are Carlos Xuma and Lance Mason. Both of these guys are really good friends of mine. One of the best confidence courses out there in my opinion is Carlos’s Alpha Man Immersion course. Carlos really breaks down how to become an “Alpha Man,” and it has nothing to do with crushing beer cans on your forehead and being a jerk to everyone you meet. Instead, it’s about developing a powerful belief system that makes you confident and attractive to every woman you meet. (Seriously, this is good stuff!) Lance also has a great method he calls Physical Confidence. This is a system of using your body language to change your emotional state, and it is VERY powerful, not to mention effective. See, emotions follow the body. So if you can change your body language, you can change what you’re feeling. And Lance’s Physical Confidence website is all about how to do exactly that. I highly recommend it. If you’re looking to jack up your confidence quickly, I would strongly suggest you check out one of these websites.

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How To Meet Women Knowing how to meet women is probably the single most important skill any man looking to improve his love life could acquire. Why? Because it is the single, most IMPORTANT step in the dating process. If you can’t meet a girl, you can’t date her, sleep with her, or get into a relationship with her! It all starts with your ability to successfully meet the woman you desire without getting rejected. Success with women is a numbers game. The more women you meet, the greater the odds of you finding one that will be right for you! So if you can’t meet girls, everything else will be all the more difficult. Frankly, meeting women was probably the biggest hurdle I had to overcome before I was able to become really successful with my love life. That’s the reason I made The Art Of Approaching in the first place, to teach guys how to make the hardest part in the process simple! Once I conquered the ability to meet any woman I wanted, I was able to have some incredible success. And everything else that comes after the initial meet became much, much easier indeed. They key to meeting women without rejection comes down to two things… 1. Knowing what girls are open to being approached. 2. Saying the right thing when you do approach them. Here’s some simple tricks to help you do both… First, perform the Eye Contact Test. This is a simple technique I teach in my course to help find girls who are open to meeting you. A big mistake lots of guys make is they’ll try to meet women who aren’t interested in meeting them. This leads to rejection and hurt feelings. Instead, when you see a girl you like, lock your eyes on her face, and wait for her to make eye contact with you. When she does, smile at her. If she smiles back, guess what? She’s open to meeting you! I go into why this works in much more detail in my course, but let’s just say that when you do this, you’ve already begun talking to her “non verbally.” So when you do start talking, it becomes a much easier task!

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Try this technique next time you’re out and you see a woman you like. Second, when you DO start talking to her, have a really good Opener. An Opener is my fancy word for a pick-up line that really works. See, pick up lines have a bad rap! Many people think they’re stupid, cheesy jokes. But the best pick up lines are actually ones that get the girl talking to you! And chances are, they won’t even notice it’s a pick up line, either. (All the best pick up lines, in my opinion, are “invisible.”) I always have a favorite opener of mine memorized and ready to go. Its best to have one that fits every situation you’re in, just in case your mind goes blank and you can’t think of anything situational. I give away over 40 of my best Openers in my course. These are all lines I’ve tested to ensure that they will not only get a good response from the girl, but lead into an interesting conversation, that you can then transition into asking for her number, or even a date! Check out my website for more details. Or you can also check out my friend Lance Mason’s excellent site Fearless First Impressions. Lance and I have had marathon phone calls talking about our different techniques for meeting smoking hot women, and I can honestly say that next to me, his stuff is some of the best out there! So if you’re really looking to easily meet hot girls anywhere you find yourself, check out my stuff or Lance’s. You can’t go wrong.

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How To Meet Women On The Internet One of my favorite past times is meeting women on the internet. It’s quick, its easy, and its gosh-darn effective! One of the great benefits of meeting women online is that you can actually go to websites where women are basically raising their hand and saying “Hey! I’m single and looking for a man!” You can’t beat that! And the sheer numbers of women you’re able to date from the internet is ridiculous. After one session of mailing profiles, I can easily get 20 dates lined up. Easily. (And I’m not exactly looking like Brad Pitt, either!) Now, a lot of guys actually have a hard time using the internet to find good women. Most of the time, this is what happens with internet dating… •

The women never look like their pictures



The truly hot girls never write back



Your profile never gets any hits



You can’t get the girl to meet you in person

And that’s just a handful of obstacles you face when online dating. But luckily, I know how to get around these obstacles, mostly because of my friends Dave Miz and John Alanis. These two guys are EXPERTS at meeting hot girls on the internet. Dave is a guy who comes out of a website design background. When he was designing websites, he learned how to test the sites he was creating to make sure his websites actually performed the task they were designed to do. So Dave went ahead an applied this type of testing to his online dating endeavors. And you know what? He creates KILLER online profiles that get literally HUNDREDS of responses from hot girls, and he doesn’t have to do a single thing! They contact HIM. Dave’s profile creating secrets are really simple, but ingeniously devious. It all comes down to:

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Choosing a great headline



Choosing the right picture



Writing great profiles that make him irresistible



Knowing the tricks so that he shows up for as many searches as possible

Dave was able to date close to 400 women in 4 years thanks to his methods! That’s a hundred women a year he gets to hook up with. Check out his site Insider Internet Dating for more information. And where Dave leaves off, my other friend John Alanis picks up! John likes to boast that he’s the “King of letting them come to you!” John jokes that he never approaches women, women approach him, because of his online techniques. Just so you know, John is a short, balding, older man with a thick Texas drawl. But this guy gets more women than he knows what to do with! See, John has a background in marketing, and he knows how to write emails to send to women online that get an insane 90% response rate! That means that 90% of the women he emails check out his profile and get back to him. In fact, I use some of his “pre-written” material myself, and enjoy tons of emails back from the women I send it to. Sending emails to women on online dating sites is a real art form, because any woman worth emailing is probably getting emails from literally HUNDREDS of guys, and 99% of them are lame. If you know how to make yourself stand out, chances are you’ll get a butt-load of responses. Check out John’s site Women Approach You to discover what he’s doing that works so damn well online.

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Know Exactly What To Say To A Woman Anyone who’s ever suffered through the dreaded “awkward silence” during a date knows that being able to carry on a conversation with a girl is VITAL to success in both love and relationships. You want to be able to keep a conversation going with a girl and build emotional connections and attraction while doing so. Unfortunately, most guys just try talking to “fill the void.” They’ll begin to resort to boring questions, boring stories, and go-nowhere conversational threads, hoping to find something to talk about. The problem with this is that you will eventually lose the girl’s interest if you resort to this! Women don’t want to be bored, they want to be fascinated, intrigued, entertained, and romanced! So knowing exactly what to say to a woman to achieve all these things is extremely important. One of my personal challenges was being able to keep a conversation going with a girl I was attracted to, and have her actually be interested in what we were talking about. To fix this, I turned to two resources. The first resource is a book called Magic Bullets. Magic Bullets is written by a good friend of mine named Nick Savoy, who collected some of the best “routines” out there for talking to women. See, routines are basically pre-tested stories you can recite to people to entertain them. Much like when a stand-up comedian gets up on stage and does his routines for the audience. You’re basically taking material you know people will enjoy and reciting it for them. In the case of Magic Bullets, that material is stories women love to hear, that make you more attractive! This is great if you’re a guy who never knows what to say. Memorizing a few of the Magic Bullets routines will ensure you are never at a loss for words when you’re out on a date. The second was Carlos Xuma’s R.E.A.L. Game course. Carlos really has a good understanding of what it takes to engage women and get them to feel connected to you. He teaches you how to be funny, how to deal with difficult conversationalists, and even covers some sneaky NLP mind-control techniques.

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Carlos’s material is a little more natural than the Magic Bullets method, but I like to combine the two to get a truly original way of having conversations with women. It’s a combination of good material, with good vibes and good emotions. All-in-all, excellent stuff.

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How To Attract Younger Women One of the biggest problems older guys have is thinking that age is an issue when attracting women. They believe that if they are significantly older than the girl they want to be with, it’s a disadvantage. After all, would a 21 year old girl really be attracted to a 45 year old man? Well, the answer is YES. Most definitely. All you have to do is just keep from falling into the trap that being older is a disadvantage. Frankly, it’s acceptable for younger women to date older men. Lots of girls do it, and lots of girls find older men sexy. Just remember what Ronald Regan said to Walter Mondale when he was attacked in the debates for being too old to be president. When asked what role age played in being President, Regan said “I would never, ever, use my opponent’s youth and inexperience against him.” In one simple sentence, Regan switched the issue from him being “too old” to Mondale being “too young and inexperienced.” When it comes to women, you have to do the same thing. Being older is an ADVANTAGE. You know things about women they have yet to discover. You know how best to please a woman. You know how to take care of them. It’s their YOUTH that is an obstacle! But here’s the real key… having a young personality is all it takes to attract younger women! Being funny, interesting, engaging, and up to date on pop culture is all you need to hold your own with the younger guys. In my course Pure Personality, I go into great detail on how men can attract any woman they want, no matter how old they are, what they look like, or what their nationality is. In the end, attraction is all about creating emotion, and if you can do that, you can get a girl of any age. Don’t believe me? My friend John Alanis hooks up with women younger than him all the time! And he’s an old, short Texas dude. Check out how he does it on his website and you’ll see how it’s possible.

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How To Be Funny And Interesting Around Women When I was first starting my journey to becoming good with women, I came across a book which taught me one of the most valuable skills I’d ever learned when it came to dating. The book was called Double Your Dating, written by David DeAngelo. And it was the first book I’d ever read which really taught a simple method of being funny and interesting around women. David called this technique “Cocky & Funny.” It was a way of acting around a girl which not only made you funny and interesting, it was also extremely effective at creating attraction. The concept is simple – tease the girl you are with the same way you would your bratty little sister. In this sense, you’re treating the girl you’re with the exact opposite way most guys who are looking to hook up with her would. Instead of telling her how beautiful she is, you talk about how she needs to stop lusting after you. Instead of talking about the reasons why she should fall in love with you, you talk about how you plan on marrying her and then taking all her money. In short, you’re basically making fun of her in a good natured way, every chance you get. And girls REALLY respond well to this type of thing, because you aren’t treating them like a “special princess,” you’re treating them like real people – something most guys don’t think to do. The only problem with this system is that too many guys do it WRONG. They actually end up insulting the girl, or making her mad, because they don’t know how to tease properly. Here are a few simple guidelines to follow when teasing a woman: •

Never tease her about her physical appearance. It’s okay to tease about her fashion choices, hairstyle, etc., but that’s all stuff she has control over and can change. Teasing her about something she can’t change, like her nose, face, weight, etc. is a bad idea!



Never tease her about her religious beliefs. Any belief she feels passionate about, you should never make fun of, because then you’d be attacking the core of who she is.

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Point out the things she does that are stupid or foolish. Things like saying something dumb, or being clumsy, etc.



Play against her expectations. Make it so that you come off as NOT trying to impress her or be romantic.



Roll with the punches. If she teases back, show you can take it, and give her props for holding her own.



Always make her the sexual predator. Misinterpret everything she does as a way of seducing you, and let her know it won’t work.



Don’t always give a direct answer. Make her work for what she wants a little. If she asks what you do for a living, tell her she gets three guesses. Don’t just come out and say what you do.

Doing all this will not only make you stand out from all the other guys in her life, it’ll also be a LOT of fun. Should you ever cross a line and take the teasing too far, don’t be afraid to apologize and let her know you didn’t mean to be rude, and ask what you can do to make it up to her. But don’t let a mess up stop you from teasing! Women LOVE to be teased, and it’s a great way to create sexual tension. If you want to learn more about how to tease girls the right way, you definitely need to check out Double Your Dating if you haven’t already. It’s a great course, and definitely got me started on the right path.

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How To Generate Attraction With Women No matter what you look like, how tall you are, how old you are, or what your ethnicity is, or how much money you have in the bank – it is possible for you to GENERATE attraction with any woman you want. You may not believe me, but it’s true. Understand a key point – attraction is an emotion! And emotions are not logical. Sure, it stands to reason that the more physically attractive you are, the easier it is to get women attracted to you. But you need to be aware of the differences in how men and women think, to really understand how attraction works. Men are very logical creatures, and are hard-wired to respond to stimulus differently than women. We are the hunter-gatherers by nature. We respond to situations based on logic. If we see a beautiful girl, logically we want to have sex with her! It’s that simple. The mistake comes in when men believe women see the world the same way they do. Women are designed differently. They are more emotional by nature. They have to be, in order to care for children! After all, babies can’t talk. They can only communicate through empathy. So women naturally have to be more attuned to their emotional state to provide for their offspring. That’s not to say women can’t be logical. They can. But while men can control their emotions with logic, women are more susceptible to letting emotion win out over logic. This is good news to any guy who doesn’t look like a male-model, because it means that as long as you can trigger the emotions of attraction in a woman, it doesn’t matter what you look like, you CAN get her attracted to you! In my course Pure Personality, I cover all the different facets of generating attraction based on the following things: 1. Social Proof 2. Storytelling 3. Being Entertaining You may not think these three things can actually get a girl attracted to you, but you’d be wrong. Speaking from experience, these three factors are KEY to getting any woman you desire incredibly attracted to you, no matter what you look like.

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So how do you utilize these three factors? Let’s break it down: Social Proof: Social proof is basically using what other people believe about you to prove that what they believe is true. For instance, you can say you have a million dollars, but no one will believe you. But if you have five people saying you have a million dollars, people will tend to think you really do have a million dollars. That’s social proof. So if you have other people saying you’re an attractive man, other people are more inclined to believe it! Sounds stupid, I know, but trust me – it works! The problem is a lot of guys don’t know how to get the social proof they need to prove they are attractive. But luckily, social proof can be created! It all comes down to knowing how to introduce yourself to lots of people and use those introductions to leverage public option. (This is a very involved process, which I can’t get into in this short report. If you want to learn more about creating social proof, you really need to check out Pure Personality for yourself. I go into great detail about how to do it there.) Storytelling: Telling stories is another key factor in generating attraction, because proper storytelling generates intense emotional connections and emotions. Think about it – every time you watch a movie or TV show, or read a book, you are being told a story. How many times have you felt excited, sad, happy, or amazed when being told a story? Stories influence emotions, and when you know how to tell great stories, about yourself, you are able to influence how other people feel about you! All the best “natural” seducers I’ve ever met are also the best storytellers. They’ll tell you stories about their life that completely capture your imagination, and make you like them. That’s why they’re so good with the ladies! So learn how to use storytelling to influence what other people think and feel about you, and you’ll be well on your way to creating attraction with any woman. Being Entertaining: Finally, you gotta be a guy people love to be around! This isn’t just about being a “dancing monkey” for people’s amusement. This is about making sure the people around you are having FUN. Understand – if you can have fun with a woman, you can sleep with her! Fun is the key aspect of attraction, because when a girl is having fun, she’s experiencing all sorts of incredible emotions, and she’s associating all those feelings to YOU. So whenever she’s around you, guess what? She feels good!

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And when that happens, the girl will actively seek to be around you so she can experience those good emotions as much as possible. This is where attraction comes into play. Storytelling can help you be entertaining, but you have to remember that if you’re not having a good time, others won’t be either. Try and have fun yourself! Do the things you like to do, talk about the things you like to talk about, and allow your good emotions to energize those around you. Be the life of the party. It’s easier than you think. Again, if you really want to learn how to attract women, then my Pure Personality course is definitely worth checking out. My good buddy Carlos Xuma also has his own spin on how to create attraction with his website Secrets Of The Alpha Man. Carlos is truly an amazing teacher (I know I’ve learned a lot from him!), and his tactics really work. I strongly suggest you check him out when you get a chance.

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How To Be Persistent With Women One of the biggest mistakes men make when pursuing a woman is that they GIVE UP. But ask anyone who’s successful in life how they achieved what they did, and they will always give you the same answer: Persistence! Ever hear that old saying “If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again?” Well, it’s an old saying for a reason – because it’s true! However, most guys give up at the first sign of trouble when it comes to getting the woman they want. This is because most guys are not emotionally strong enough to be persistent with women! They sense the rejection coming on, and they turn tail and run, trying to keep from experiencing being hurt. But 9 times out of 10, if they could just “hang in there” and stay the course, and give themselves TIME to create attraction, they could actually get the girl that’s giving them problems. I actually used to suffer from this issue a great deal myself. I’d meet a girl, get her number, and then give up after a few phone calls. Or, I’d get together with her, and get the sense that I wasn’t doing well, and bail. Then I met a guy who calls himself Gunwitch. He taught me his method of persistence and how to use it to go after the women I desired. Some people call his aggressive method of meeting women “cavemaning,” since it’s the societal equivalent of knocking the girl out with your club and dragging her back to your cave. Of course, you’re not actually physically harming anyone! You’re just not giving up, no matter what. Gunwitch’s philosophy is “Make the ho say NO.” And though ol’ Gunny is a bit rough around the edges with his motto, there’s something to that. Until the girl flat out tells you “I’m not interested, stop bothering me,” you have to look at the situation as though you have a chance. If she’s not returning your phone calls, keep calling. If she’s too busy to meet up, keep trying. If she’s not sure she wants to go home with you, keep pushing. Don’t be creepy or overbearing while you do it, just be persistent! Offer the girl new opportunities to get her to do what you want – constantly. Trust me when I say, the more persistent you are, the greater your chances of getting the girl you want! If you want to check out Gunwitch’s teachings for yourself, you can do so by visiting his webste. Gun isn’t a “professional” dating coach, but his stuff is still pretty good.

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How To Make A Woman Your Girlfriend Every guy out there has met that “one special girl” that he’s decided he wants to have a fulfilling, long-term relationship with. And you know what? There’s nothing wrong with that! Once you find a girl you like, there’s no reason why you shouldn’t settle down and make her your girlfriend. If you’ve done your job right, getting a girl to agree to be your girlfriend is a simple task. It’s as easy as looking her in the eye and saying “I like you. I want you to be my girlfriend. Care for the job?” Unfortunately, most guys have NOT done the job properly. They haven’t bothered to create comfort, trust, or rapport with the girl. They haven’t been able to cultivate feelings of attraction. They may not have even gotten her to agree to a date yet! Understand that making a girl into your girlfriend has less to do with how YOU feel and everything to do how SHE feels. If you have just been admiring the girl from afar, or if you’ve been stuck in the “Friend Zone,” or if you’ve just gone on a couple of dates – that doesn’t mean you’ll be able to turn her into your girlfriend just because you want it. To successfully make a girl into your girlfriend, you have to do three things: 1. Have her feel comfortable around you. 2. Have her feel strong emotional connections to you 3. Have her feel physically attracted to you. Remember, true seduction is all about emotions. Emotions will always override logic! And without these emotions I just described, you will not be able to make the girl your girlfriend. So how do you create these emotions? Making her feel comfortable: Comfort is a building block emotion. It needs to be there for the other two emotions to take place. If a girl feels nervous, overwhelmed, awkward, or uncomfortable around you, you will never be able to create connections with her or get her attracted to you. Luckily, it’s easy to make a woman feel comfortable. The first thing you need to do is BACK OFF. Don’t make her feel any pressure from you sexually. If a girl knows you’re pushing hard to have sex with her, she won’t be able to relax. So you need to be

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laid back when you’re around the girl you like, you need to be able to flirt with her, but you don’t want her to feel like your ultimate agenda is sex. The second thing you have to do is – HAVE FUN. If the girl has a good time when she is with you, she will be relaxed around you. In fact, she’ll even look forward to seeing you! Joking around, doing fun activities, and telling fascinating stories are all great ways of accomplishing this. Making strong emotional connections: If comfort is the foundation you build the relationship on, emotional connections are the glue that will bind her to you. We tend to be attracted to people who share similar traits to ourselves, and these traits are established through emotional connections. To do this, find commonalities between the two of you. Are you both from the same town? Do you both like the same music? Are you a fan of the same TV show or sports team? Whatever the two of your share in common, find it! These are the things that create emotional connections. In addition to that, share stories about your experiences in life based on the stories she tells you. If she was almost in a terrible car accident, tell her about a time where you were almost in an accident. If she had a great vacation to the Bahamas, tell her about your best vacation ever. The more a girl learns about you, the more connections will be established, and the stronger the bond that’s created. If you want to know more about comfort building and establishing strong emotional connections, my course Renegade Rapport is all about how to do this, quickly and easily. I use the techniques all the time and they work great! Making her feel attracted: This final step is the most important one. Lots of guys get stuck after the “comfort” and “emotional connection” stages, and this usually ends up landing them in the “friend zone.” If you succeed with the other two emotions, but fail at attraction, you will have a hard time convincing the girl to be yours. Now, if you are a good looking guy and she’s already attracted to the way you look, this is easy. However, some guys need to work a bit harder – and even if she’s already attracted to you, its never a bad idea to amp that attraction up. Keep in mind that attraction is way more than just about your looks. You should always look your best, that’s for sure, but attraction is an EMOTION, and emotions can be created. (I explain all this in my course Pure Personality, which is all about how to create attraction, no matter what you look like.)

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The best way to generate attraction is to have FUN with the girl. If a girl has fun with you, she will be attracted to you. And if you’ve been doing that since the comfort building phase, this should be easy. But attraction also requires a certain amount of sexuality to be present. Lots of guys don’t think of themselves as “sexy,” but women sure do! So you need to start being sexy around the girl. Once comfort is established, and you have those strong emotional connections, it’s time to start amping up the sexual tension in the relationship. The best way to do this is to start joking about sex. Start cracking jokes about how much she wants you, how she’s trying to seduce you, take advantage of you, etc. If she buys you a drink, ask her if she’s trying to get you drunk so she can have her way with you – you know, that kind of thing. Initiate physical contact – touching on the hand, wrist, knee, etc. Massage her lightly. Pay attention to how she reacts. Touching always creates sexual tension. (Just don’t over-step your boundaries while doing it!) If you can create all three of these emotions, you can successfully get any girl to become your girlfriend. If you want more details on how to get a girl into a relationship, but also how to KEEP her happy in a relationship, my friend Stephen Nash has written an amazing book about how to do exactly that. You can read his book on his “How To Get A Girlfriend” website. He’s an amazing relationship coach, and his insights will help any guy get the girl he wants. If you’re looking to keep a girl and have a long, healthy relationship, I highly recommend you check out Stephen and his teachings.

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How To Seduce A Woman A lot of guys have their own definition of what it means to “Seduce” a woman, but to me, seduction is really the process of getting a woman to sleep with you. And in order to do that, you need to create intense feelings of arousal in the girl you are with. But in addition, you must also know how to TAKE ACTION. Some guys can get a girl aroused, but then chicken out when it comes to the action. Other guys can pull the trigger and make their move, but they haven’t created the necessary arousal to make it work. If you want to successfully seduce women, you must do BOTH. So let’s over each in turn… Feelings Of Arousal: The most important thing to remember when it comes to making a woman feel aroused is that arousal is an EMOTION, and emotions can be created! So even if a girl isn’t aroused by you, she can be made to FEEL arousal by you. This is of key importance. My good buddy Derek Vitalio, creator of Seduction Science, is a master at this. He has a background in hypnosis, and hypnosis is just a way of influencing people’s emotional state. Derek creates arousal by generating intense SEXUAL TENSION. Sexual tension can also be defined called “mixed signals.” You’re letting the girl know that you’re attracted to her and want to have sex with her, but you’re also doing things to make her think you might NOT want to have sex with her. Confused? Well, that’s okay. If you weren’t confused, there wouldn’t be any tension! Think of it like this – if a girl flat out KNOWS you’re into her, she has the power to say “yes” or “no” to your advances. But YOU want to have the power in the interaction, so by sending “mixed signals” and creating “sexual tension,” you prevent the girl from having the power to decide if she wants to have sex with you. When this happens, the girl experiences a great deal of doubt, nervousness, and uncertainty. This is the “tension” aspect of sexual tension. It’s not a good feeling! And what tends to happen when we experience feelings we don’t like is we seek to get rid of them! And when it comes to SEXUAL tension, the only way to get rid of those bad feelings is to GET SEXUAL. So when you make your move, the bad feelings the girl was experiencing go away, and they are replaced by GOOD feelings. And when that happens, the girl will RUN towards

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those good feelings as fast as she can! Which means she’ll be ready and willing to hop in the sack as soon as possible. If you want to learn more about how my friend Derek creates powerful arousal in women, check out his website here. Taking Action: But the key to creating sexual tension is that YOU MUST TAKE ACTION!!!! If you let sexual tension linger too long, the tension will actually drive the girl away from you! Remember, tension is unpleasant. If there is no alternative, it will trigger the girl to move away from you. This is why some girls can act cold and distant after having a great first date. Sometimes, guys create powerful sexual tension without knowing it, and they don’t make their move, so the girl naturally tries to protect herself from feeling that way again. When sexual tension has been successfully created, you MUST make your move on the girl. Look her in the eyes. Are her pupils dilated? (You know, when the black center of her eye is really big?) Are her eyes flitting back and forth between yours? If so, she’s ready to be kissed! Cup her cheek with your hand deliberately go in for the kiss. Start with a soft kiss, and then gradually apply a little more pressure. Kissing is the first thing you gotta do to start the ball rolling, because it will relieve the sexual tension. After that, you have to guide her into the bedroom, and start escalating. There is no real secret to taking action, except DON’T CHICKEN OUT! Just be confident (even if you don’t feel confident), and take the lead. Pay attention to the cues the girl gives you. You can usually tell if what you’re doing is working if you bother to pay attention to the girl you are with. My course, Consistent Close, is all about my action plan for getting women into bed within the first three dates. It’s a very powerful and effective system I’ve developed, and it works great! If you want to get really good at knowing exactly how to get a girl you like to sleep with you, you need to check out the website. There are a few more really good resources for creating seduction, and both of them have to do with hypnosis. I know it might sound cheesy, but hypnosis is really about discovering the secrets to influencing people’s emotions, and it can be VERY powerful, especially when it comes to seduction. The two resources I recommend if you want to discover how to hypnotize women into feeling intense states of arousal are Advanced Sexual Hypnosis by my good friend

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David Shade, and Hypnodate. Both will give you incredible, sneaky, covert seduction techniques to get any woman into bed.

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How To Rock Her World In Bed If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that being skilled in the art of making love is essential for getting women coming back to you time and time again. After all, getting women into bed is only half the battle. KEEPING them coming back to you after you get them into bed, is the other half. And the best way to do that is to rock her world from the moment you get her into bed. A man who knows how to please a woman sexually is a rare find indeed, and when a woman happens upon a man who knows how to please her, she will do ANYTHING she can to keep him! Not only that – but getting to practice your lovemaking skills is always extremely fun! ;-) I give away a great bonus in my course The Art Of Approaching, which teaches you three easy techniques you can use right away to make any woman reach the “Big O” in no time flat. In fact, it is one of my most popular bonuses, according to my students who write in and tell me what they think. But being a skilled lover can be as easy or as complicated as you want to make it. Here are a few tips to point you in the right direction. Tip #1: Foreplay Is Everything Everything leading up to sex is what you could consider “foreplay,” but foreplay actually plays a much more important role in pleasing your woman than most guys realize. My good buddy David Van Arrick – a guy who was having so much sex with so many different women, he actually had to be hospitalized because he hurt his back during a threesome – taught me this very important skill. Foreplay can include things like kissing, massaging, fingering, and even oral sex. When done right, you can get a woman so aroused that she is guaranteed to orgasm when you start to have sex with her. In fact, if you follow David’s golden rule about giving a woman at least three orgasms before having sex with her, you’re well on your way to becoming a sex God in her eyes! And bringing a woman to orgasm while in foreplay isn’t nearly as hard as you think it is. You just have to remember to focus on two things – finding the right pace, and focusing on the clitoris. The more experience you get in bed, the more this will make sense. But every woman is different. Some enjoy direct clitoral stimulation, some need to be stimulated indirectly. Some women like oral sex, some don’t. Some like it hard and fast, some like it soft and slow.

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But regardless, if you adjust your techniques to the woman, you have to find the right speed to stimulate her, and the right way to stimulate the clit. All arousal with women begins with the clit, and when you know how to treat it right, you will see amazing results. I learned almost everything I know about sex from my friend David. He has a website called Secret Orgasm Tips. If you want to be amazing in the sack, then you definitely need to check him out. Tip #2: Stamina Is Essential Lots of guys are really nervous about two things when it comes to sex – the size of their penis, and their ability to last long enough to please their women. I think every guy can relate to a fear of being “too small” or not lasting long enough. And short of getting expensive (and painful!) surgery to fix this problem, guys don’t really have many options. However, once again, my friend David Van Arrick comes to the rescue. Did I mention that David is actually a licensed medical practitioner? The fact that he’s a doctor has lead him to develop an amazing system meant to help men last longer in bed, and enhance themselves naturally. It really is an amazing technique. It doesn’t require any surgery, pills, or “chemical” aids of any kind. And before you know it, you’re lasting longer, and measuring longer, than you ever knew was possible! Having gone through the system myself, I know for a fact that it works. I went from around 5 ½ inches to 6 1/4 inches in no time! I couldn’t believe it. And the women I was with were constantly impressed with my ability to keep going, and going, and going. David calls his technique the “Forever Man” method. I highly recommend you check it out if you’re looking for a way to last longer and improve your size. Tip #3: Discover What Women Secretly Desire Back in my younger years, when it came to sex, I was completely clueless. And I wasn’t alone. Lots of guys fall into the mistake of only focusing on their own sexual needs and desires. But when it comes to being an amazing lover, knowing what your partner wants will always out-weigh what you want. That’s the difference between a man women can’t keep away from, and a man that’s stuck at home alone on a Friday night. Back in the day, my first real, honest-to-God sexual advice came from a man named David Shade (what is it about guys named David and being good at sex? Who knows!).

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He had written a small book called “David Shade’s Manual,” and it was only available through some back-woods mail order catalogue. I tracked down a copy and bought it while I was in college. There was some crazy stuff in that book – stuff that no one had ever taught me about women. But mostly, it was about getting inside a woman’s mind and figuring out what really turns her on. And more than that, it was also about training the women you are with to please YOU, so you got what you wanted as well, and everyone was happy. Honestly, David Shade has some amazing insights into how the female mind works. Alas, his original David Shade’s Manual is no longer available. However, he does give away a lot of his knowledge on his new website Sexual Power. It’s definitely worth checking out if you’re at all curious about getting inside a woman’s mind. In the end, just remember that sex is meant to be enjoyable! If you work too hard to be the perfect lover, you might take all the fun out of it. Just remember to relax, and experiment. If you don’t rock her world the first time around, you will get points for trying. Women tend to appreciate men who are attentive lovers, because there is potential there. So as long as you’re trying to please her, you’re doing something right!

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How To Have A Threesome When you ask any man what his ultimate sexual fantasy is, you tend to get a response that goes something like this: “Two chicks at the same time!” Indeed, if getting one girl into bed is good, then getting TWO girls into bed is better! Unfortunately, most guys believe this is a goal that is out of their reach, and the closest they’ll ever get to being in a threesome is watching it on some porno movie. But this is simply not true. It is VERY possible to get a threesome with just about any girl you want. You just have to know the right way to go about getting it. Guys will make 2 major mistakes when it comes to threesomes. They are: 1. Pushing too hard for it to happen 2. Not pushing hard enough for it to happen If you want to get two girls at the same time, you have to walk that fine line between manipulating events to get what you want, and allowing the women to feel as though they are in control. But the biggest thing you have to realize when it comes to negotiating a threesome is this: ALL women are open to it! You may think that a girl you’re dating isn’t into it, but trust me, under the right conditions, she will be. One of the primary rules I learned long ago is that all women are bi-sexual. Most just don’t know it. (Yet!) So here are some easy tips to help you get started on wrangling your first three-way… Tip 1: Set The Stage Early Typically, for a threesome to work, you need a woman who can act as your “partner in crime.” So you need to find a girl who’s not only open to having sex with you, but sharing you with another woman. A big mistake guys will make is to try and force their current girlfriend or wife to have a threesome, even though they never set the foundation for doing so early in the relationship. This leads to hurt feelings and a possible end to the relationship. Instead, find a primary girl who knows from the start that you want an “open” and “adventurous” relationship. And if she’s okay with that, you can move forward.

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Tip 2: Lead With A Gentle Hand Once you have a girl willing to help you, you need to be the one leading the charge to make the threesome happen. However, you’re going to need to guide the girl you are with in the process, without coming off as overbearing. You’ll need to help train her on how to recruit other women for the threesome. And you’ll have to set the stage for making the threesome happen, once you’ve recruited another girl. Getting the girls back to your place is a good start. Having some alcohol handy is also helpful, just to take the edge off. Some girls can be nervous about having a lesbian experience, so alcohol will grease the wheels a bit. But mostly, it will be up to you to act calm, confident, and slowly guide the interaction towards the inevitable sexual activity. The best way to do this is to begin to initiate sensual massage on your primary girl, and asking the other girl to join in and help you. Then, switch it up and have the girls start massaging you! Tell them what to do, and watch with amazement as they go along with it! Then, have you and your primary girls start massaging the other girl, and begin getting sexual with your primary. The other girl will suddenly join in! (Believe me, it’s true!) Just don’t get too forceful. If a girl is hesitant or nervous, try and address her fears instead of making her push past them. Remember, the key here is to lead, but do so gently! Tip 3: Focus On Your Primary Girl It can be tempting, during a threesome, to focus on the new girl – the one you haven’t had sex with before. But you have to remember that the woman you have to keep happy and feeling secure is your Primary Girl, the one who helped you set up the threesome in the first place. Threesomes, by their nature, lend themselves to people feeling left out. And this can lead to hurt feelings, and that can ruin the entire experience! So always make sure your primary girl knows you’re more into her than you are the other girl. This will ensure the threesome experience is a good one she will want to repeat with you! There are lots of little techniques you can learn to make a threesome happen. I actually learned everything I know about getting threesomes started from another girl! Her name is Suzy Bauer. She’s a crazy European chick who is bi-sexual to the max and loves to have threesomes. You can learn how Suzy teaches other guys to get two women into bed at the same time in her Step-By-Step Threesome website.

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How To Pick Up A Stripper One of the craziest times of my life was when I was in my “picking up strippers” phase. Strippers are incredible women. Fun, outgoing, crazy, sexy, insane women. But strippers are not like normal women. There is a different psychology you need to be aware of when picking up a stripper than when you are picking up a normal girl. Everything you’d do to pick up your average chick will not work on a stripper. Why? Because strippers are used to it! These women get hit on more in one night than your average woman gets hit on in a year. They meet all types of men, and they know all the tricks in the book. Not only that, they are at the club to MAKE MONEY. It’s their job. So the last thing they want to do is give up money just to hang out with you! They see any guy in the club as a customer they need to make a sale to. Because of this, you need a special “Tool Set” to use when dealing with exotic dancers to get them to meet you outside the club. Me and my buddy Bruno McKay – a man who knows pretty much everything there is to know about strip clubs – even created a website designed to teach men how to pick up strippers, WITHOUT shelling out half your paycheck. The Website is called Stripper Secrets, and it’s a must read for anyone who is interested in dating a stripper. Here are a few quick guidelines you can follow which will help you attract an exotic dancer: •

Never spend any money in the club! If you’re seen as an average customer, chances are you’ll never get her out of the club and into your bed. (At least, not for free, anyway.)



Don’t spend too much time in the club. A half hour to an hour tops. Spending all night in the club is a bad idea, because it makes you look like a customer.



Go to bikini bars instead of full nude clubs. Girls at bikini bars are easier to pull.



Be an “insider.” Get to know the DJ, the doorman, the waitresses, etc. Talk about other dancers you’ve dated (if you haven’t, make it up). You want the strippers to think you’re one of their crew instead of a customer.



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Don’t pay for dances. If you want a dance, have your buddy pay for you instead. This will help you keep from being pegged as a customer (just slip your friend some money beforehand to pull this off)



Find out where the strippers go after the club closes. This is actually the best time to pick up a stripper, because most girls will go someplace close-by to get some food after the club shuts down. This is the perfect place to meet them!



Don’t bother with phone numbers. If you can’t get her to leave with you the night you meet her, find out when she works and come back to the club then. Strippers never give out their real numbers, and if they do, they don’t usually pick up.

These are just a few of the tricks Bruno and I picked up. If you really want to learn every secret there is in the book about meeting, dating, and banging strippers, you need to check out the Stripper Secret website.

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Other Resources I hope you enjoyed the material I’ve shared with you in the book, but if you’re like me, you always want more! So to help you out, I’m including a comprehensive list of resources for learning to improve your success with women. My Websites •

The Art Of Approaching – Everything you need to know about meeting women



Stripper Secrets – How to meet, date, and pick up strippers



Consistent Close – How to get a woman into bed in 3 dates or less



Renegade Rapport – How to covertly get women to fall in love with you.



Pure Personality – How to generate attraction, no matter your looks, age, or income

Websites On Building Confidence •

Physical Confidence



Secrets Of The Alpha Man



Ultimate Inner Game



Alpha Immersion



The Alpha Male System

Websites On Meeting Women •

Art Of Approaching



Art Of The Pickup



Fearless First Impressions



Approach Women Now



Approach And Attract

Websites On Dating •

Double Your Dating



Guy Gets Girl



High Status Male



Interviews With Dating Experts



Magic Bullets

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Alpha Man Conversation



How To Get A Girlfriend



Get The Girlfriend



The Dating Wizard



Everything You Know About Women



How To Be Irresistible To Women



Conversation King



Make Women Laugh



Wing Women Method

Websites On Online Dating •

Insider Internet Dating



Women Approach You



Meet Women On Facebook



Net 2 Bed



The Remote Seducer



Success With J-Date

Websites On Attraction/Seduction •

Surefire Attraction Secrets



The Dating Wizard’s Seduction Mastery



The Way Of Gun



Real World Seduction



Seduction Science



How To Pick Up Sexy Chicks



Make Out Mastery



Attract Any Woman



Mack Tactics



More Lays In 60 Days

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Forbidden Seduction Patterns – The Octoberman

Websites On Sex •

Secret Orgasm Tips



Step By Step Threesome



Advanced Sexual Hypnosis



Sexual Power



The Forever Man



Secrets Of A Male Escort



Blissnosis



Prejaculation



Cure Erectile Dysfunction



Orgasm On Demand



Sex God Secrets



Get Your Wife Or Girlfriend To Become A Swinger

Miscellaneous Websites •

Dating For Short Guys



Hypnodate



Dress For Success



Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back



Flirt Mastery



Texting Tips For Men



Kissing 101



Friends To Lovers



Guide To Dating Japanese Women



The Shocking Truth About Russian Women



Grooming Secrets For Men



How To Be The Jerk Women Love

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Dating Thai Women



How To Date An Asian Woman

Workshops •

Inner Game Workshop



Art Of Rapport Workshop



Art Of Attraction Workshop

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Putting It All Together After reading this guide, you may be overwhelmed by the sheer amount of information you’ve just digested. But to get started, just take things one at a time. You don’t have to do EVERYTHING at once. Just take baby steps. Eventually, with enough practice, meeting, dating, and seducing women becomes EASY. But just in case you’re still confused on where to start, let me make it easy for you – start with The Art Of Approaching. I give you everything you need to get you started on your journey to being successful with women, and I break it down for you in an easy and simple way. In The Art Of Approaching, you’ll learn… •

The single most important thing you must do if you ever want to see the women you approach again. Blow this… and forget any chance of ever “GETTING” the women you desire!



How to PROPERLY introduce yourself to the women of your choice! Lame one liners won’t do it… but after you understand my amazing “meet women” technique the “hardest” part of meeting a woman becomes easy immediately!



How to “break” the thought patterns present in every woman you want to meet. If you don’t use these you’re setting yourself up for failure… even before you start!



Discover 4 “How to introduce yourself” structures as your foundation to design your own unique WAYS of getting the woman you desire instantly attracted to you!



How to avoid the old saying… “He who hesitates… masturbates!” in 3 seconds flat! You’ll quickly identify your target — design your opening — and walk away with your desires in hand. Meeting the girl of your dreams has never been easier!



How to NEVER force the woman you’re approaching to cringe! Very important…. BUT… commonly overlooked. And if you don’t KNOW this one you’ll always wonder “why” she didn’t respond to you (even if you have malemodel good looks).



How to use a female tactic of seduction on the woman of your choice! (No it doesn’t require bikini underwear) It works like a charm… and leaves an impression on their memory!

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The one assumption (completely OPPOSITE from the truth) men make about approaching women. Once you know it… you’ll be so shocked about it, you’ll want to try it out immediately!



The 5 things you must do BEFORE approaching a woman. You’d be surprised how many men don’t have a clue about this one. But if YOU don’t… you’ll look like a dog chasing its tail.



The Advice Opener — How to use the confidence of a subject matter to covertly force a woman to admire you.



The Compliment Opener — The oldest and simultaneously most MISUSED opener known to man. If you do this one wrong… forget it (you’ll want to pick up another jar of Vaseline!)



The Direct Opener — The most DANGEROUS (because it’s the easiest for her to reject) yet if pulled off right — is very EFFECTIVE!



The Drama Opener -- A simple and powerful technique when done correctly. You’ll captivate her mind and she’ll hang on your every word… if done right! (Fully detailed inside!)



The Insult Opener — This technique is psychological warfare at its heights! But don’t make the mistake of walking up to someone and start slinging the “B” word around and think you’ll get a date (It’s much more subtle but can knock a woman off her high horse!)



The Joke Opener — The most difficult technique… which makes it the most powerful technique. Why? Because IF you know how to make her laugh… you’ve got her right where you want her. BUT if you don’t… you’ll be cold another night!



The Online Opener — The internet is TOO popular to dismiss. Don’t think “cyber-lines” with a smiley face will cut it. However there are tried and true techniques!



The Opinion Opener — Powerful engaging technique. But if you don’t pull this off right… YOU’LL look like a pompous prick!



The Role-Play Opener -- Understand HOW… and… WHY this works and you’ve built an immediate bridge between you and your desires! And your target will enjoy every minute of it.



The Situational Opener – Quick — Powerful — Explosive… The 3 elements of this technique. Improvise in ANY situation… any time and she’s sure to be yours!

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Everything You Need To Know About Meeting, Dating & Seducing Women



8 commonly overlooked places to MEET a woman. And a simple guide to analyze which place is best for you.



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“5 don’ts” of flirting. Don’t blow this one. So many men make countless blunders here… and now you can avoid them like the plague!



How to mesmerize the women you’ve approached. It’s simple and fun — and you’ll know you’ve got her once you “read her”.



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